Shit Test Cheat Sheet

Like most guys, when I first started I wanted the perfect line for each test. It's not so much about the lines, but rather the way you respond.

When faced with a Frame Test you have 5 different ways you can respond.

Each type of response gets you + or - attraction points.

For this example, we will look at when things are going great and all of a sudden a girl accuses you of being a player. However, this cheat sheet will work for most other tests.
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1. Getting upset by a test or losing control of your emotions (-2 PTS)

Hb: Are you a player?

I don't know. I mean, No. I am not a player! No, really. Do you believe me? (guy starts pouting) I can't believe you don't believe me.

2. Responding to the test with logic (-1 PT)

Well lets see, my last GF was in March, 2001. We decided to take a break because she needed to focus on her school work. So... no, I'm not a player.

3. Ignore test and cut thread. (+1 PT)

4. Agree with her & exaggerate. Diffuse with humor. (+2 PTS)

Yep, I'm a total pimp. I have 22, no wait counting you that's 23 GFs. It's kinda hard pleasing all of them in bed at the same time.

This is what most people do (C&F). It works, no doubt. But there is an even better way.

5. Reframe the test as she is attracted to you. (+3 PTS)

Hb: You are probably a player. I'm not fooled.
6yc: So, tell me something. When did you first realize... (pause) you were attracted to me?

Pull her close and kiss her

Here is a recent example of a test I got during an IM conversation.

Hb: Hey, I saw pictures of you from the party last night. Looks like you were hitting on every girl. Are you a player?
6yc: So...you were checking me out huh? Hmmm...

Notice how I ignore her thread (+1) and reframe her test (are you a player?) as she was sitting home and staring at my picture all day (+3).

Take tests for what they are. She wants you.

Reframing (#5) also works well for AMOGs and other people in your life who try to lower your value. Just replace (attracted) with (person is trying to get you to like him b/c he is insecure)

For example

Amog (TD): Wicked shirt dude. My little sister has the same one... but with like the little stripes on it.

6yc: (Laughing) Bro, you don't have to keep trying so hard to get me to like you. I already told you, you are a cool guy.

So next time anyone tests your frame, whether it be your girlfriend or that annoying guy at work, see how many + or -points you got based on your type of response.

Review

-2 pts) you get mad or upset
-1 pt) you use logic
+1 pt) you ignore the test
+2 pts) you agree with the test & exaggerate it (C&F?)
+3 pts) you reframe the test as she is attracted to you

Knowing how to deal with tests correctly is probably the #1 skill you will need in having a successful LTR. If you think you get tested a lot out in the field...just wait until you are dealing with MLTRs (lol)

6YC

No girl ever left a guy because he was too much of a challenge